GIRLS Will she take me back? Read my story (bit long, sorry)?
k this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). I tried to move on like she suggested, but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine". I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm handsome, I do lots of sport. I'm kind and compassionate (doesn't really work in my favour, since guys my age aren't meant to be). But I do know that once the summer comes, these exams will be out of the way, and she will feel much less stressed. I've decided to cut off contact with her completely until the exams are over and summer starts, and then ask if she wants to meet up sometime. If she says yes, I'll see how it goes, and hopefully ask her out again, knowing that we can at least have a summer relationship :) If everything goes to plan, do you think she will say yes? Kitteh smasher... well dont answer, nobodys forcing you to read it :P
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know one wants to read your novel
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she might say yes....it sounds like a good plan but dont get ur hopes up, she might not take u back :( u have no idea what she will say, i hope she says yes though! u seem to really love her and just want to be with her which i think is great! maybe when there is less stress for her she will say yes, maybe u should even tell her what u said on this.... :) i wish the best of luck!
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Hmm, I once had a crush one a boy for 3 years finally he started liking me and through that time I never realized that he did...Why would someone like him ever like me? Then time went by and know from us being so close to dating...there's nothing left there's a huge rift between us. =/ Just try to text her once a month. Why not ask if you can help her with her work or studying? Good Luck =)
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Well heres the thing, you cant change the way a girl thinks about you. Sometimes looks arent enough to save you :( (trust me) if it really was the stress and she feels the same way you feel about her, then maybe this plan would work. But i bet you it wouldnt work if you were always pushy and hovering her, she might not be able to know how she feels about you. Also she cant know that this was all a plan. Try to stay JUST friends for a while, and not those overprotective friends.
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Saturday, August 28, 2010
Saturday, August 14, 2010
GIRLS Will she take me back? Read my story (bit long, sorry)
GIRLS Will she take me back? Read my story (bit long, sorry)?
k this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). I tried to move on like she suggested, but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine". I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm handsome, I do lots of sport. I'm kind and compassionate (doesn't really work in my favour, since guys my age aren't meant to be). But I do know that once the summer comes, these exams will be out of the way, and she will feel much less stressed. I've decided to cut off contact with her completely until the exams are over and summer starts, and then ask if she wants to meet up sometime. If she says yes, I'll see how it goes, and hopefully ask her out again, knowing that we can at least have a summer relationship :) If everything goes to plan, do you think she will say yes?
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Sounds like she has high expectations for herself as a professional, seeing as she is studying a lot and seems like that's all she has time to do. If she gets in to this prestigious university in the UK and you don't then she probably will dump you. But you can probably get back with her after the exams seeing as that was the reason you and her broke it off based upon your story here. But I dunno, I'm just a 3rd party that has no idea of anything expect for what you have written here. I'm also a guy, sorry if you were looking for girls only
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im from america and my ex was indipendent a lot like i would txt him and then i would get worried about him or i thought he did not like me but you peoples are perfect opposits like in a good way... =)
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Give her some time since she's under alot of stress due to the exams. But don't cut off contact with her she mite think your over her. Like you said hold off until the exams are over
4 :
It really depends on if she still likes you in summertime. Try not to send her texts and stuff, you don't want her to be annoyed by you. After the exams(not STRAIGHT after, cause she'll still be a bit stressed) she might say yes...
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k this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). I tried to move on like she suggested, but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine". I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm handsome, I do lots of sport. I'm kind and compassionate (doesn't really work in my favour, since guys my age aren't meant to be). But I do know that once the summer comes, these exams will be out of the way, and she will feel much less stressed. I've decided to cut off contact with her completely until the exams are over and summer starts, and then ask if she wants to meet up sometime. If she says yes, I'll see how it goes, and hopefully ask her out again, knowing that we can at least have a summer relationship :) If everything goes to plan, do you think she will say yes?
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Sounds like she has high expectations for herself as a professional, seeing as she is studying a lot and seems like that's all she has time to do. If she gets in to this prestigious university in the UK and you don't then she probably will dump you. But you can probably get back with her after the exams seeing as that was the reason you and her broke it off based upon your story here. But I dunno, I'm just a 3rd party that has no idea of anything expect for what you have written here. I'm also a guy, sorry if you were looking for girls only
2 :
im from america and my ex was indipendent a lot like i would txt him and then i would get worried about him or i thought he did not like me but you peoples are perfect opposits like in a good way... =)
3 :
Give her some time since she's under alot of stress due to the exams. But don't cut off contact with her she mite think your over her. Like you said hold off until the exams are over
4 :
It really depends on if she still likes you in summertime. Try not to send her texts and stuff, you don't want her to be annoyed by you. After the exams(not STRAIGHT after, cause she'll still be a bit stressed) she might say yes...
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Saturday, August 7, 2010
Getting my CNA (certified nurse's aid)- Specific Shoes Needed
Getting my CNA (certified nurse's aid)- Specific Shoes Needed?
I just got accepted into a CNA course. When going for my interview, the lady told me (at least I think) that I need "close-toed shoes with a heel strap." The only close-toed shoes WITH a heel strap that I could find are those horrible crocs. Those ones that have holes like swiss cheese and look like they're made out of foam and come in many colors. I cannot STAND those. Does anyone know if she meant that they had to be both close-toed and shoes with a heel strap? Why aren't slip-resistant tennis shoes acceptable? Or are they? And if not, are there any other shoes out there that fit this description and where can I find them? Thank you for your help!
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Rubber soled. One left and one right.
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All she is saying that you cannot wear shoes where your toes show or slip-on shoes where your foot could fall out. You need to get a good white, padded shoe because you will be walking and standing a lot and want good foot protection - think of those ugly crocs.....if someone pees or spills blood on you, it will leak through those little holes. Get shoes that fit well and are comfortable I bought white nurse shoes from KMart once. Also, check out local medical supply stores.
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google it. and alos dont follow that link that one guy sent you he posted the same thing on my question and i got a virus on my computer but thank goodness i have three lol
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I just got accepted into a CNA course. When going for my interview, the lady told me (at least I think) that I need "close-toed shoes with a heel strap." The only close-toed shoes WITH a heel strap that I could find are those horrible crocs. Those ones that have holes like swiss cheese and look like they're made out of foam and come in many colors. I cannot STAND those. Does anyone know if she meant that they had to be both close-toed and shoes with a heel strap? Why aren't slip-resistant tennis shoes acceptable? Or are they? And if not, are there any other shoes out there that fit this description and where can I find them? Thank you for your help!
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Rubber soled. One left and one right.
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All she is saying that you cannot wear shoes where your toes show or slip-on shoes where your foot could fall out. You need to get a good white, padded shoe because you will be walking and standing a lot and want good foot protection - think of those ugly crocs.....if someone pees or spills blood on you, it will leak through those little holes. Get shoes that fit well and are comfortable I bought white nurse shoes from KMart once. Also, check out local medical supply stores.
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google it. and alos dont follow that link that one guy sent you he posted the same thing on my question and i got a virus on my computer but thank goodness i have three lol
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Sunday, August 1, 2010
Based on the Jack Sprat’s case study answer the following questions
Based on the Jack Sprat’s case study answer the following questions:?
Jack Sprat is a 55 year-old gentleman who underwent coronary artery bypass graft to treat atherosclerosis. He returns to his internist’s office where you work as a nurse practitioner. Jack reads a lot of books and watches movies about fast foods, saturated fat, and cholesterol. He asks for your opinion of what is the best diet for him. How will you advise him? Jack’s lunch diet recall is as follows: Turkey with Swiss on rye with thousand island dressing Sun chips Diet Coke Based on the Jack Sprat’s case study answer the following questions: What recommendations will you make to improve the nutritional profile of Jack’s lunch? What dietary advice would you give to patients like Jack Sprat who have hypertension? Would you suggest that Jack limit fats in his diet? What are specific fatty acids in specific foods he should eat more of? What would you recommend in relation to dietary cholesterol? Should Jack eat more whole, unprocessed, plant foods such as fruits, vegetables, whole grains, nuts, and legumes? Why or why not? What fatty foods should Jack eat less of? Where would you direct Jack for more information on the subject?
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Your question is a bit much for a simple question and answer forum. I'd say most people either won't be qualified to or have the inclination to answer all of those parts. I would tell J.S to check the sodium levels on the Sun Chips and the diet soda in accordance with his guidelines for sodium intake on a hypertension relieving diet.
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Jack Sprat is a 55 year-old gentleman who underwent coronary artery bypass graft to treat atherosclerosis. He returns to his internist’s office where you work as a nurse practitioner. Jack reads a lot of books and watches movies about fast foods, saturated fat, and cholesterol. He asks for your opinion of what is the best diet for him. How will you advise him? Jack’s lunch diet recall is as follows: Turkey with Swiss on rye with thousand island dressing Sun chips Diet Coke Based on the Jack Sprat’s case study answer the following questions: What recommendations will you make to improve the nutritional profile of Jack’s lunch? What dietary advice would you give to patients like Jack Sprat who have hypertension? Would you suggest that Jack limit fats in his diet? What are specific fatty acids in specific foods he should eat more of? What would you recommend in relation to dietary cholesterol? Should Jack eat more whole, unprocessed, plant foods such as fruits, vegetables, whole grains, nuts, and legumes? Why or why not? What fatty foods should Jack eat less of? Where would you direct Jack for more information on the subject?
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Your question is a bit much for a simple question and answer forum. I'd say most people either won't be qualified to or have the inclination to answer all of those parts. I would tell J.S to check the sodium levels on the Sun Chips and the diet soda in accordance with his guidelines for sodium intake on a hypertension relieving diet.
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