What would you do if you feared for your life? I am not ready to die.?
I have never been paranoid, or fearful in general, but due to being attacked from trying to work, some people trying to get $ off me from lawsuits.resulting in being attacked,I am fearful. Strange things going on here. Someone stole my marriage lic, my voter's reg card. Other things stolen...identity theft? I lost my career here. I was able to work when I arrived. I am not able to work now. I keep getting offers for life ins, Many crime committed against me here.. Many issuesdragged up again. I worked for State 6 yurs. was a licensed person,with security clearance, STRESS.k. Have been attacked four times, REL TO WORK, Olooking for work.lMy husband who was alive then was fully aware of it. We e were legally married, established over and over.. I hve been told by many people he is dead. My marriage lic disappeared after I talked to the preacher who married us, outside re something. We appeared in court, we had a ceremony, blood tests. He went to a lot of effort to marry me. We dated 4 yrs, This had sentimental value to me. He was father of my children. Iwas told by many people,agencies he is deceased, church, relatives, funeral homes, said he is deceased. I did not get to go to the funeral. I did not know in time, and might not have been able to go. I have been the victim of many scams to get money from lawsuits. Manylies have been told on me, churches have been involved in dirt done to me and much hurt., much defamation of character. , if someone attacks me...something bad happens,no matter how much later it is, if I laugh, it means it did not happen or was not serious. I cope by humor at times. It is not inappropriate. I am afraid for my life, offers of l,ife ins, pressure to get life ins.I would be terrified to get life ins. Threatened with rape? I have not been attacked here yet. I do not want to go where I came from 6 yrs ago. People die very young here, been threatened. My hsb and I were hetero, Christian Cons. Went to church for most of our married life, often. I cannot leave my apt. w.o.someone coming in, stealing. They lie about it I CAME to work, sane, competent. been working full time for yrs. I have no morals problem.never used illegal drugs, NO sex b4married. not had sex in 25 yrs. Would not go out with a married man, would sue him. never drugaddiction,ained wt due to poverty,, IN POVERTY, forced to stay MOST OF TIME, .contingency followed me here to get $.looking for that Swiss Bank acctwhich does not exist. I anot in need of med. never a major mental illness . I am not schizoid, schizophrenic, bipolar. Had cig. addictionS, two..Never needed diet pill....Not in need of surgery.Not having a physical or taking psych drugs. Someoone has a lawsuit going based on big fat compulsive lies.They keep coming into my home,going through my things. no right. seen all I have, steal from me.No sense, or character. Makes me sick God knows what vile filthy trash do here. I committed no crime. I came licensed, healthy, well able to work. I was not in need of,nor planning to file bankruptcy, or retire for seven years, pt time work.at what I wanted. Strung me along I would get work in career until my cash,credit exhausted. I was neat, clean,, professional. told I would be able,no reason to not work in hosp in profession.denied work, blocked at job serv.HR get me to consumer credit,hen to bankrupcy att so they could investigate my belongings, cREDIT RUINED, NO HOME, no apt. no work.career gone, this time forever. Where I came from, gt into my purse at work, g the key,into my home my PC. Harassed me otj. Went in did inventory to see they wanted to sue me. I was nurse, sent people there to visit to see, planning to terminate me,sue me. No cause to sue me I SPANKED NO PT. Set my house on fire so Fire Dept, into my home..wife worked in nh had taken care of my Mother in nh where she was.SHE died suddenly. He also worked for ambulance service. Having major problems with a man from the amb service who stalked me, ran me out of apt another town,, THEN STALKED me back to where my sister lived. I commited no crime.Psychos. Greed. He is not someone I know. I have seen a relative of the ambulance man s wife here, saw amb. atten. here, & man who abducted, attacked me when I came from job interview. cops do not care. The man in my apt. threatened, intimidated me Want moneyf or this hca. I was blocked from work. Now, they are going remodel apt. allegedly. WeSoLowSki from AnEtt. DooLee bought it same name as apt name for state. sTHIS FED.. I HAVE NO LAWYER. ALWAYS LEGAL REP.always. nEEDed no guardian ever had none ever.. Trying to get $ off things for which statues passed I could do nothing about They probably got it, need to bury me now. I am not safe. 45 min from dtr.SCARED to death, blatant abuse of powe and disreagard for rmy privacy. I am ill now.. Sick.."nOT ABLE TO WORK. sAID "FIRST i EAT" . Almost confined. Ill.
Law & Ethics - 4 Answers
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1 :
I have this memory..I am sitting on a bank in front of a hospital building. There is a whitish filtre above all the scene and someone is holding me. I am dying and I wanted to be outside in the garden.
2 :
I think you should pack your bags and leave with your kids to somewer safe immediately..somewer isolated.. And you cant trust ANYONE in such a situation...dont keep contact with anyone..and lets see wat happens..
3 :
You need to move somewhere that this person cannot find you. I would move to another state and immediately file to change your name legally. Do not let anyone but your immediate family know your new address- not your neighbors, not your former coworkers, etc
4 :
It may be a family member so moving would not help, you need a relationship expert to help you determine if your husband is causing all of your problems as he may be hiding.}{
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Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
GIRLS Will she take me back? Read my story (bit long, sorry)
GIRLS Will she take me back? Read my story (bit long, sorry)?
Ok this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). I tried to move on like she suggested, but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine". I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm handsome, I do lots of sport. I'm kind and compassionate (doesn't really work in my favour, since guys my age aren't meant to be). But I do know that once the summer comes, these exams will be out of the way, and she will feel much less stressed. I've decided to cut off contact with her completely until the exams are over and summer starts, and then ask if she wants to meet up sometime. If she says yes, I'll see how it goes, and hopefully ask her out again, knowing that we can at least have a summer relationship :) If everything goes to plan, do you think she will say yes?
Singles & Dating - 8 Answers
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1 :
of course she will.. all women do that
2 :
LONG?.... that thing is a book. And YES, she'll say YES, if she's interested...
3 :
You lost me at only read if you have time on your hands.. this site is for short answers, not page long answers. Maybe try talking to a specialist?
4 :
you need to stay in contact otherwise when you finally ask her to meet up she will be like " who are you?" and then she would say no but to get her to say yes try this plan make the visits to her advantage you know like maybe do revising with her or tutor her
5 :
I think she will say yes. You sound like an amazing guy. But summer is just 2 months and a half. And, school and exams are just around the corner. And, its going to be even more stressful for her in University because then that will determin what job she will be doing!! So, I think school is the most important thing for her. So, I wouldn't torture myself like that. Look for other girls. I doubt this one is the right one for you since she chooses her school work over you. Good Luck ((= Answer Mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100407100205AACqyR4 ( Mine is a little long too)
6 :
Hey man! u do deserve a yes for what all u have done for her....if she doesn't... she doesn't really understand ur feelings or deserves u really....but d fact she s under work pressure may account for her behaviour but ya acc to me...u deserve a yes and hopefully u ll get an affirmative reply! good luck for ur future! :)
7 :
ya k well i totally get how she is cuz i am exactly the same way...i put school before everything, and sometimes it really sucks, but ya its really stressful and im sure id be really stressed if i was her ...and when im stressed i do rash things..she probably broke up with you cuz she couldnt risk the temptation of taking time off to have fun when this test determines her whole future...ya id do exactly what you said ..and give her some time off so she can figure somethings out because maybe she'll come around...but its hard to say because as you said you were being clingy...but id ask her to hang out again...and maybe get close to her again
8 :
i dont think you should cut off contact. but dont be overbearing. i think you should call her occationally just to say good night. or see how she is and her school stuff. dont make it about the relationship make it about her. and if she says she hasnt got time tell her that youll always want her when she does have time and you understand her ambitions. tell her that your not going to find someone else and you dont mind sitting idly by until shes ready. you may even tell her that you wouldnt mind only getting to see her for 5 mins every 2 weeks as long as you could look into her eyes and hold her close to you. id say dont quit contact or she may stop have feelings for you, but dont annoyy her or that might happen too. be good to her, dont overload her and dont make it about you, and undestand and then when shes ready shell take you back.
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Ok this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). I tried to move on like she suggested, but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine". I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm handsome, I do lots of sport. I'm kind and compassionate (doesn't really work in my favour, since guys my age aren't meant to be). But I do know that once the summer comes, these exams will be out of the way, and she will feel much less stressed. I've decided to cut off contact with her completely until the exams are over and summer starts, and then ask if she wants to meet up sometime. If she says yes, I'll see how it goes, and hopefully ask her out again, knowing that we can at least have a summer relationship :) If everything goes to plan, do you think she will say yes?
Singles & Dating - 8 Answers
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1 :
of course she will.. all women do that
2 :
LONG?.... that thing is a book. And YES, she'll say YES, if she's interested...
3 :
You lost me at only read if you have time on your hands.. this site is for short answers, not page long answers. Maybe try talking to a specialist?
4 :
you need to stay in contact otherwise when you finally ask her to meet up she will be like " who are you?" and then she would say no but to get her to say yes try this plan make the visits to her advantage you know like maybe do revising with her or tutor her
5 :
I think she will say yes. You sound like an amazing guy. But summer is just 2 months and a half. And, school and exams are just around the corner. And, its going to be even more stressful for her in University because then that will determin what job she will be doing!! So, I think school is the most important thing for her. So, I wouldn't torture myself like that. Look for other girls. I doubt this one is the right one for you since she chooses her school work over you. Good Luck ((= Answer Mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100407100205AACqyR4 ( Mine is a little long too)
6 :
Hey man! u do deserve a yes for what all u have done for her....if she doesn't... she doesn't really understand ur feelings or deserves u really....but d fact she s under work pressure may account for her behaviour but ya acc to me...u deserve a yes and hopefully u ll get an affirmative reply! good luck for ur future! :)
7 :
ya k well i totally get how she is cuz i am exactly the same way...i put school before everything, and sometimes it really sucks, but ya its really stressful and im sure id be really stressed if i was her ...and when im stressed i do rash things..she probably broke up with you cuz she couldnt risk the temptation of taking time off to have fun when this test determines her whole future...ya id do exactly what you said ..and give her some time off so she can figure somethings out because maybe she'll come around...but its hard to say because as you said you were being clingy...but id ask her to hang out again...and maybe get close to her again
8 :
i dont think you should cut off contact. but dont be overbearing. i think you should call her occationally just to say good night. or see how she is and her school stuff. dont make it about the relationship make it about her. and if she says she hasnt got time tell her that youll always want her when she does have time and you understand her ambitions. tell her that your not going to find someone else and you dont mind sitting idly by until shes ready. you may even tell her that you wouldnt mind only getting to see her for 5 mins every 2 weeks as long as you could look into her eyes and hold her close to you. id say dont quit contact or she may stop have feelings for you, but dont annoyy her or that might happen too. be good to her, dont overload her and dont make it about you, and undestand and then when shes ready shell take you back.
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Wednesday, July 7, 2010
GIRLS WIll she take me back? Read my story (bit long, sorry)
GIRLS WIll she take me back? Read my story (bit long, sorry)?
k this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). I tried to move on like she suggested, but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine". I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm handsome, I do lots of sport. I'm kind and compassionate (doesn't really work in my favour, since guys my age aren't meant to be). But I do know that once the summer comes, these exams will be out of the way, and she will feel much less stressed. I've decided to cut off contact with her completely until the exams are over and summer starts, and then ask if she wants to meet up sometime. If she says yes, I'll see how it goes, and hopefully ask her out again, knowing that we can at least have a summer relationship :) If everything goes to plan, do you think she will say yes?
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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1 :
you deserve better. ik its hard to move on, but you have to. dont waste your time on her.
2 :
Aw! Well don't worry! You seem like a really nice guy and all you want is to love this girl! I wish I was the girl you are talking about. It is rare to find girls that are solely for their school work. I agree that for now, you should leave her alone and not worry so much. I think that she would say yes because you seem like one of those guys that I would date (but you are about two years older than me so I can't) and you just seem like the sweet type. This girl would be mental not to want to date you again!
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k this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). I tried to move on like she suggested, but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine". I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm handsome, I do lots of sport. I'm kind and compassionate (doesn't really work in my favour, since guys my age aren't meant to be). But I do know that once the summer comes, these exams will be out of the way, and she will feel much less stressed. I've decided to cut off contact with her completely until the exams are over and summer starts, and then ask if she wants to meet up sometime. If she says yes, I'll see how it goes, and hopefully ask her out again, knowing that we can at least have a summer relationship :) If everything goes to plan, do you think she will say yes?
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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1 :
you deserve better. ik its hard to move on, but you have to. dont waste your time on her.
2 :
Aw! Well don't worry! You seem like a really nice guy and all you want is to love this girl! I wish I was the girl you are talking about. It is rare to find girls that are solely for their school work. I agree that for now, you should leave her alone and not worry so much. I think that she would say yes because you seem like one of those guys that I would date (but you are about two years older than me so I can't) and you just seem like the sweet type. This girl would be mental not to want to date you again!
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Thursday, July 1, 2010
GIRLS: Is there a chance she'll take me back later? Read my story.. (bit long)
GIRLS: Is there a chance she'll take me back later? Read my story.. (bit long)?
Ok this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). The next few weeks were a bit strange. I tried to move on like she suggested, messed around with some other girls (I am NOT a player, I was just trying to cut myself off from this girl emotionally by having some fun), but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" Her reply was brutal: "I'll miss you, I always will and I'll never know what could have been but I'm gonna have to accept that. I want us to be friends, but I can't hold a relationship in this school". It was like a kick in the nuts. A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine" (I think she has PMS at the start of each week which was when she sent this, but I'm not sure, just a theory...). I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. So now I'm sitting here at my desk, completely in love but not knowing if or when we'll ever be together again. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm h
Singles & Dating - 4 Answers
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I'm not sure about this one. Maybe you should find someone else.... :(
2 :
Do no keep on texting her like i am sorry (some girls do not like that.. like me lol) Just wait till you see her then you tell her is everything okay between us? if she says yes then walks aways text her later and just say "hey baby lol" if she said i do not know if we are okay between us then you then you say like you can trust me ...go from there! Good Luck =] ANSWER MINE PLEASE!
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awe, you are soo sweet! so this will be kind of hard to hear, brace yourself: if you want things to work out between you two, you are gunna have to be content with just being friends at this point. this girl is obviously very focused with her schoolwork, and you will just become a hinderance if you keep bothering her right now. just try to hide your feelings, and be friends with her. this way, you will be able to maintain contact. later in the future, you will have a chance at a relationship again, but only if you keep talking to her and stuff - how will you be with her after school if you don't keep talking to her now ? it'll be hard, but just try your best to not to think of her too much, and give her time to catch up with schoolwork and such. once you get out of school, you will be more likely to havve a successful relationship, without the pressure of tests and stuff.] btw, i dont think it was such a big mistake that you said I love you to her ; after all , now she knows how you feel, and you wont be left wondering "what if.." also, she said a part of her felt the same, so that is a good sign. after tests are over and stuff, she will try to have a relationship with you again. please read mine too, its pretty long but not as long as yours was! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100405082350AAcF5gp&r=w
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It's one of those situations where your basically madly in love with her whether you have a choice in the matter like you said; I'm sure once all these tests and exams are over and she starts to feel a little better she'll start opening up more so if you really really love your just going to have to wait
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Ok this is a bit long, only read it if you have time on your hands. Thanks :) We're both 17 and we went out for a few months. We're both fairly new to the whole dating thing. Anyway, I really like her, and she said she really liked me. Sometimes I would be a bit too needy, like I would text her and be surprised when she didnt text back (she's quite independent), but if we spent the day together doing something it would be the other way round. Just so you know, we're in England, not America, in our last two years of high school when we have these big exams that determine which universities we can go to. She is VERY into her work and feels under a lot of pressure since her parents are teachers and a lot of her relatives have gone to one of the top universities in the UK. Anyway, we had some trial exams about a month ago. She had a week of absolute hell, since she had lots of classwork to catch up on as well as revision for these trial exams (which, unlike me, she took very seriously). On the day of the last trial exam she dumped me, saying that she was behind on all her work and didn't want to fail. If any other girl told me this, I would think she was lying, but she isn't your everyday average teenage girl. Obviously at first I didn't believe her and reacted badly by walking away from her, so she texted me later saying again how sorry she was (I replied, not angrily, but agreeing it would be best to stay friends). I was talking to my matron afterwards (a sort of school nurse), who knew the girl and told me she was in fact struggling with her schoolwork (she knew this from feedback from other teachers). The next few weeks were a bit strange. I tried to move on like she suggested, messed around with some other girls (I am NOT a player, I was just trying to cut myself off from this girl emotionally by having some fun), but it didn't seem to work. I dont know if I love this girl or not; she is not your generic high school hottie, she doesnt get much romantic attention from guys (she said she couldnt understand why I chose her "instead of some pretty blonde girl"), but in my eyes she is absolutely beautiful. I know she hurt me, but she is the sweetest, funniest girl I have ever known (it's not a trait most guys my age look for, but it is for me!). On my birthday (a week after she dumped me) I sent her a text saying I still had feelings for her. Her reply was friendly but she said "I am behind on all of my work, and I dont want to fail". When we went out, I would give her things. On a date I gave her a box of swiss chocolates, a chocolate lollipop one time, roses and a homemade card on valentines day, and a poem (yes, a poem... this is the only person in the world I would write this for). I gave her these things because we could only see each other once every few weeks, so I tried to make each occasion special (I couldn't hang around her or her friends obviously). A few weeks later, I wrote another poem for her (you might have seen me put it on here... I got good feedback so I'm guessing it was a good one). Her reply was a text saying "thankyou =) hope things are good with you". Obviously I was upset, so I replied saying "should I have written that for somebody else?" Her reply was brutal: "I'll miss you, I always will and I'll never know what could have been but I'm gonna have to accept that. I want us to be friends, but I can't hold a relationship in this school". It was like a kick in the nuts. A few days later term ended and we're now on holiday, revising for the big exams which come up in a few weeks. Eventually we texted a bit more, agreeing to meet up sometime (just as friends). One night though I was just lying in bed, and I dont know what happened... I had had some family problems that day with arguments between my parents, who are split but who were trying to take us on holiday. I made a big mistake, overwhelmed by emotion, and sent her a text telling her I loved her (I know, big mistake... even though at this point, I realised it was true). She replied by saying she didn't have time for this (busy revising like everyone else), and although part of her felt the same she would rather focus on her school work. I texted her again later asking she was ok, I literally got a text just saying "I'm fine" (I think she has PMS at the start of each week which was when she sent this, but I'm not sure, just a theory...). I havent heard from her since, despite texting her to ask what was wrong and saying I was sorry. So now I'm sitting here at my desk, completely in love but not knowing if or when we'll ever be together again. I know she doesn't love me back and she has much more important stuff to do at the moment, but all I want is to be able to hold her in my arms again and kiss her forehead and keep her safe. I've been told I'm h
Singles & Dating - 4 Answers
Random Answers, Critics, Comments, Opinions :
1 :
I'm not sure about this one. Maybe you should find someone else.... :(
2 :
Do no keep on texting her like i am sorry (some girls do not like that.. like me lol) Just wait till you see her then you tell her is everything okay between us? if she says yes then walks aways text her later and just say "hey baby lol" if she said i do not know if we are okay between us then you then you say like you can trust me ...go from there! Good Luck =] ANSWER MINE PLEASE!
3 :
awe, you are soo sweet! so this will be kind of hard to hear, brace yourself: if you want things to work out between you two, you are gunna have to be content with just being friends at this point. this girl is obviously very focused with her schoolwork, and you will just become a hinderance if you keep bothering her right now. just try to hide your feelings, and be friends with her. this way, you will be able to maintain contact. later in the future, you will have a chance at a relationship again, but only if you keep talking to her and stuff - how will you be with her after school if you don't keep talking to her now ? it'll be hard, but just try your best to not to think of her too much, and give her time to catch up with schoolwork and such. once you get out of school, you will be more likely to havve a successful relationship, without the pressure of tests and stuff.] btw, i dont think it was such a big mistake that you said I love you to her ; after all , now she knows how you feel, and you wont be left wondering "what if.." also, she said a part of her felt the same, so that is a good sign. after tests are over and stuff, she will try to have a relationship with you again. please read mine too, its pretty long but not as long as yours was! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100405082350AAcF5gp&r=w
4 :
It's one of those situations where your basically madly in love with her whether you have a choice in the matter like you said; I'm sure once all these tests and exams are over and she starts to feel a little better she'll start opening up more so if you really really love your just going to have to wait
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